coffee(I would describe myself here… but that would just be my opinion of myself.. what I want to know is what people think of me… because I dont know.. why.. but people just dont like me…..
How can I find out?
im becoming pretty miserable and lonely..
any help is appreciated! thank in advance）
Answer：
Its not about other people, it is about what you think of yourself and how you treat yourself. Its called self worth or self esteem and it is something our parents are supposed to help create in us as we grow up. If our parents do not have that to give, then we don’t always find it by accident through our church or a teacher. But don’t give up yet, you can still get it by teaching yourself. You need to start reading books on self esteem and also start observing others who are respected and well liked. Watch what they do and how they do it. I am not suggesting you be someone else, but between the reading and the watching you will find some behaviors that fit you and you can start believing in yourself and acting in new ways that command respect. It is not a change that will happen over night, but if you start now, you will have a few new ideas in your head by the time school starts. Make this school year the year of the new you, the you that is waiting to come out and enjoy her life. I have confidence in you. Forge ahead.